Mon 15 Aug 2011
That’s not right!
Posted by Erin under Daily Life
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There’s been a lot more giggling around here lately as Abigail’s sense of humor develops. Her favorite catch phrase of late is “That’s not right!” which she says after initiating or noticing any silliness around her. Yesterday she was swimming in the pool with her dad and asked him to play “sandwich and peekaboo.” He was still trying to figure out what she meant when she laughed and said, “That’s not right! Let’s play cat swimming!”
One of her favorite wordplays is changing Swiper’s name and catchphrase. Sticker no swiffing, Swooper no poofing, and so on. That just doesn’t get old. “That’s not right!” she says, between giggles. Simon’s Cat videos also tickle her funny bone, especially this one:
She was cracking herself up this evening pretending to be Swiper. She would do something she thought of as transgressive, such as walking around with MULTIPLE BAGS ON HER WRIST! Then she would say, “Mommy, say, ‘Swiper time out!’” Then I’d say it and she’d laugh. Other entries in the Swiper Time Out game were licking playdough, pretending to sleep while leaning against the wall, and walking around with a paper bag on her head, bonking into things. Whenever she wants to be mischievous she adopts the Swiper persona. Her weirdest high-jink lately was taking an ear of corn out of the crisper drawer in the refrigerator, shouting, “Ha! You’re too late!” and racing away down the hall with it, me in hot pursuit. She ran into her room and launched it as hard as she could, flying headlong air herself. It rolled to a stop under the rocker as she flopped onto the changing pad on the floor. She shook off the daze and said triumphantly, “You’ll never find it now!” I find life with her so entertaining right now. Some days we reach bedtime and I feel like I’ve been laughing for the past 12 hours. Other days it feels like 12 hours of exasperation. But I successfully got her to eat her entire dinner tonight by addressing her as Swiper and telling her NOT to eat it. Reverse psychology in its purest form! I’m glad she’s found a little wiggle room to be less fearful and less obedient than normal by calling herself Swiper. She hates any dissonance in my relationship with her and almost never rebels as Abi or Baby Cat. But she needs to test those boundaries somehow.

yes they do like to test their boundaries and it’s been a joy to see these from you.What a blessing and joy Abigail has been and always will be. I love you all.
Oh, my word. The corn episode had me rolling. I’m still laughing!!
One note of caution on the reverse psychology for eating: She will want you to endlessly repeat it long past the time when you just want her to EAT IT ALREADY! During our camping trip, when Fi wasn’t eating well, Martin took her fork, speared two black beans, and made her fork into a poorly behaved guy with beans for eyes, who said in a wacky voice, “You can never catch me and you can never eat me… AAARGHHHhh!!” as Fiala gleefully proved him wrong. It was fun for about four meals. Fun for us, that is. “Make it into a guy with eyes!” Fiala pleads, still, six weeks later.
Thanks, Bea! we love you too.
Karen– the one thing she pesters us for constantly are stores. tell me a pooh story! tell me a sneaky fox story! tell me a dora story! tell me a stinky cat story! She likes story telling better than books now. I LOVE telling stories but it really gets out of hand chez nous.